You know that line that friends don't cross, just certain things you don't do with another friend?
(like having your friend fall asleep ontop of you as you both lay in the same bed?)
You really start to wonder whats going through their head when they start toeing the line. =/
Trust me when I say some girls just think that's a normal way to act with platonic friends, as far as I can tell from past experience they are considering the act with no more or no different emotional attachment than they have with a stuffed animal.
But it begs the question why she would always actively avoid such situations. (until today)
I mean, she's not hug-shy or anything, but mm...
Idk in four years not so much as sitting on the same bed.
And then today was just really out of the blue.
Its very very possible I'm reading entirely into it and indeed I'm just a teddy bear.
Of which, at this point, I don't have a problem with.
I'll be real here for a moment:
Toward the end of my very shitty relationship with my ex, I met a friend who immediately became a best friend. However, I very quickly became attracted to him, and I suspected he was attracted to me. In part because of mixed signals, and in part because as our friendship went on he began spending the night more, and sleeping in my bed. Which was no big deal, but we began sleeping in my bed in our underwear together. Aka him in his jock strap, me in my briefs. Eventually my feelings for him kinda led me to realize just how done I was with my current relationship.
Never went anywhere, though we have since had "real talk" about our friendship in which I told him I had feelings for him and he said that he "wished he liked me because he knew I would be good for him, but he just didn't feel that way."
Whatever, my point is that you never fucking know. I guess, sometimes, you just have to go with it.