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Please I suffered three years of BS with an alcoholic who cheated on me repeatedly and admitted at one point that he'd hated me for about a year of our relationship. You live and learn, it is really, really true. I don't say this to diminish the effect your experience had on you, but to emphasise that making poor relationship decisions doesn't diminish your opinion or value.

Honestly I didn't intend to "whine" beyond that one comment I made, but your "reasoning" merited a response, imo.

Incidentally, this dude is from Kentucky.

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I've only had one dream in my life with kids in it that didn't involve me gnawing my feet off, and it had to do with kids doing my laundry.

Well, I'm just saying don't lump me into the other people who neglected you. I consciously ignored your post because I didn't have any good advice, not because I didn't feel like responding or because I wanted to destroy the world of Mal.

Besides, there wasn't much to say anyway. The guy said he didn't feel that way about you, so what the hell type of advice am I supposed to give? Which begs the question, why did you go on a date with him after he said that?

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Wait wait wait, I see that you already answered Feli in regards to that.

So here's my advice.

I don't think you're going to get anywhere with a guy who says he just wants to remain friends. And even if you are, it's going to take too much work and not be worth it in the end. So drop him and move on.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Why are relationships so....complicated? Normally I'd bitch and whine about woman, but that wouldn't be fair; men are just as equally at fault when it comes to shitty relationships. The worst part? I finally find a girl that I like, and I'm crippled with such pathetic anxiety that I can't even bring myself to text her for fear that something will go wrong.

Sucks shit, mang.

You miss a hundred percent of the shots you don't take.

Wayne Gretzky taught me about women.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Inevitable, we need to face up to the facts, we gotta ask women out, plain and simple, there's no trick, no short cut, no technique, nor talent, it's just approaching the girl and saying "Hey, want to go out?".

If anything man, text her now, if she says no, it will hurt less the next time.

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I LOL'd but it is true. And feliciano also has good advice. You can never go wring striking up a simple conversation, and if she isn't interested then that's on her. At least you haven't made a fool of yourself, you just tried to be friendly with a gal who turned out to be a complete bitch, amirite?

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I've only had one dream in my life with kids in it that didn't involve me gnawing my feet off, and it had to do with kids doing my laundry.

In principle I agree with you. But in practice literally the last 3 times a guy told me they were only looking for friends, within weeks they were in relationships claiming that they "just happened." Hand to fucking god.

Not to sound slutty, but I've also many times also heard the "I'm in a relationship" bell tolled, and that is often just a "get me drunk enough and let's see what happens" indicator.

So yeah, I'm gonna try and see what I can make of this, and if I only wind up with a good new friend then that's still pretty damn good to me

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I've only had one dream in my life with kids in it that didn't involve me gnawing my feet off, and it had to do with kids doing my laundry.

sounds like a no-lose scenario to me Mal! Sounds good man.

My situation on the other hand is...
odd. still.
blah blah blah corny one liner
blah blah blah slow dancing

a thing I thought was odd though, I collaborate with her on alot of the stuff I write. Stories and such.
And she's convinced the two leads of my latest story are written after me & her.
She's all giddy about it. Yet I tell her they're not based on us because they end up being lovers.

"Could still be us."

._.

...A-Anyways. And because I'm horrible at it, she took over and volunteered to write the sex scene...
Between... characters she's convinced are me & her.
I'm a little... concerned.

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I'll be right back. I gotta go see a man about a mule.

Another person I'm not entirely sure is qualified to give this sort of advice.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

I'm really not.
I've been in retarded non-relationships for years.

But its not really advice.
Its why I kept my mouth shut from his OP.

Just my 2 cents.

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I'll be right back. I gotta go see a man about a mule.

We're still waiting for those pictures NiteOwl, nobody has forgotten.

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Has anybody else noticed that when you get...argumentative or confrontational with a girl, that they tend to be more attracted towards you? I first thought of this when I was in Middle School and I began to act indifferent towards a girl I liked because she was acting the same way towards me. She told me she appreciated my honest and how I wasn't pretending to be interested in what she did (Even though I actually was).

Then, a friend of mine and I when we were getting to know each other would argue over everything all the time. We just became friends even though I had a crush on her, but I never really told her anything or did anything, and now we're just good friends. But after all the arguments we've had, we learned to trust each other and even though we still argue sometimes, I'm pretty much her confidant.

And more recently, a girl I kinda like and me argued over politics. This might sound idiotic but I'll risk it, because I need to be honest about the issue, but her view points pissed me off because I feel like what Mexico needs is a total change from the politics we've had forever given the situation we are in right now. She said she wanted the old ruling party to be back because at least we didn't have violence or crime and I let her know that things have always been bad, but that there was too much censorship back in the day to be aware of it. We just sort of stopped the argument but I didn't really want to talk to her after that. I find it very hypocritical too that she wants to be a teacher and wants a candidate who is the mexican, earthly equivalent of Zaphod Beeblebrox to rule us. So I just stopped talking to her for a few days and later, she's the one who's saying "Hi" and all, and asking me things and the like. We didn't bring up politics again. And I almost didn't want to answer but I wanted to be the nice guy so I did.

It's sort of the same thing that happened with another girl and me six years ago. We used to argue all the time too and we ended up having a long distance relationship that didn't really work, and well, we're friends and sometimes we talk about getting back together or flirt with each other.

And the same thing happened with a friend of mine back when we were getting to know each other better. I think we were both attracted to each other at some point, but nothing came of it mostly because we sort of pushed each other away only to be back together.

I don't know, just something I noticed. I find it hard to find a balance between being too nice and not being so. When I push myself to be a jerk, I can really be a jerk. But I try to not be too confrontational about anything because I don't like to lose my cool, but I guess it's about stating how you feel without getting pissed off, no? Aaah, life is confusing.

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Neither have I.
Paul's been really busy and I haven't had a chance to get my camera back.
I took a picture with Kayla yesterday on my phone, but remembered it has no memory card.
So trust me.
No ones more eager to prove he's not full of bullshit more than I.

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Wait... who's Kayla? I thought Kara was the person you always talk about

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Kayla's just a friend
Kara is out of town with her new girlfriend

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I'll be right back. I gotta go see a man about a mule.

I hate to be that guy, but just taking picture with your friends doesn't prove anything when it comes to your constant lady getting. I know I don't speak for anyone but myself, but I want to see some of these sexy ladies you're always hooking up with and or fooling around with

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You're gonna be dissapointed.

Because they don't exist.

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Ohhhhhh shiiiiiit daaaaaaamn!

I think I almost LOL'd off my king size bed!

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I've only had one dream in my life with kids in it that didn't involve me gnawing my feet off, and it had to do with kids doing my laundry.

feliciano is shittin' on niggas and peein' on the seat.

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