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The problem is you're looking at each girl as a potential girlfriend, and not simply as someone to date.



Who said anything about stopping without an explanation? Why not just say "I've met someone else"? Again, neither of these girls are your girlfriend, you're not in any relationships.

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"Heard them Walthers like to jump some" "As will you, with one in your elbow."

It happens all the time. In my dating life I've either been told that they met someone or had to tell someone that I met someone. There's also those instances where communication just slows and eventually ceases due to a mutual sense of a lack of connection. No hard feelings. This is just "the dating game." They're not girlfriends, they're just girls you're getting to know. Sure, you treat each date as if it's with "the one," but you never have expectations. Just hope. And just have fun. Dating should be fun. And expensive.

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I've only had one dream in my life with kids in it that didn't involve me gnawing my feet off, and it had to do with kids doing my laundry.

I just don't want to hurt any feelings. These are nerdy, introverted girls I'm dealing with here who probably don't go on dates that often.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Random thought: What if we called the first Sierra "Jester," to avoid any confusion?

Anyway, there's been some new developments with me. First off, I still haven't heard back about the second date. But there's still time, and as I said, we're both very busy people.

MEANWHILE, one of my drumline colleagues decided that she wants to play matchmaker to her friends. And sure enough, she has someone in mind for me. I told her to keep that idea in reserve, just in case things with the first girl don't pan out.

It's good to have a Plan B, no?

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This is truly a madhouse. And I'm the lunatic running it. I've spent three years wondering if I should be proud or ashamed.

At least someone here is not fucking around !

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Good luck, Curi.


Just don't hurt me.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

*Glares*

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So, this is not very encouraging but I decided not to go out with the girl with the psycho ex. Main reason being the psycho ex but also from the times we've talked, the attraction is more physical than personal, but it doesn't really go beyond that. Also, I question the reality of what she told me. So yeah, I've probably taken the coward's way out.

Anyway, I'll be honest and say I've been in a bit of a depression because of that. Mainly because I feel like I always attract the wrong girls and I am attracted to all the wrong ones as well. So, I'm not sure of what to do or how to behave anymore. This past year, one of my best friends helped me out of a rut by getting me to socialize more, be more outgoing with women and well, sure, I've met more girls that way and I feel more secure but the same problems as always arise: Lack of interest from them, lack of interest from me, schedule problems, they turn out to be psychos or have some serious personal issues, they turn out to have boyfriends, they turn out to be lesbians or they simply disappear off the face of the Earth. So, there's always something that gets in the way.

I was thinking of not simply approaching anyone anymore, but I've taken that stance before and well, it certainly didn't help. I'd like to go to the movies this weekend and I'm thinking of asking someone out but I'm not even sure if I can go in the first place (schedule problems shit) and well, I'm not sure of who to take and if they would actually enjoy going. Or if I should ask at all.

Anyway, RJ, just ask this girl out. Yeah, as you can see a lack of chemistry is frustrating but at least you realize it. And well, you have to learn how to live with breaking hearts and getting yours broken. It's just an ugly fact of life. And more often than not, you are better off or they meet someone who makes them happy. It might be hypocritical of me to write this given what I just explained but for me, the part that gets me is that nothing seems to change, no matter what I do.

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I'm really happy things are looking up for you, man. You're a great guy and it's about damn time the women of your part of the world realeize it.

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I completely second this.
Good luck Oscar.

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Lack of chemistry?

But yeah, I'll probably ask her if she wants to see The Raven next Friday.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Well, in my case, I got along with this girl but there was nothing else. We didn't really connect on a deeper level.

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Ah, okay, I get what you're saying.

Yeah, I guess I won't know unless I ask one of them out.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Good...........lord

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Kay, planning on asking Sierra out again.

Set on this Tuesday.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

Good luck.

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If she turns me down, I'll just be like "Oh well!" and then ask Stephanie out the next day.

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."

I feel tempted to say something................else.

Instead, break a leg 'ziller, you deserve it.

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what

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"The world is a fine place and worth fighting for." I agree with the second part.

"There's a cello in your house now."